HANDWRITING ANALYSIS/ PERSONALITY SNAPSHOT OF KOURI RITCHENS

  HANDWRITING ANALYSIS/SNAPSHOT OF KOURI RITCHENS

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1.  Assertive, likes to take charge, be the one in charge. More comfortable

 dictating others than taking direction herself.

2. Bossy/decisive: not only does Kouri know what she wants, she also

believes that she knows the best, most efficient ways, to accomplish a

task. To some, outwardly, it may appear that, when Kouri is with her

children, she "has it all together,"; when in fact it's a facade. Control,

having it, and dosing it out makes Kouri feel powerful. She is the type of

person who would go to their death bed denying the OBVIOUS truths.

Kouri cannot emotionally handle or regulate herself, properly, if she feels

that she isn't in control, or that another person is a threat to that control.

3. Kouri's self-esteem: It sits right at average. She doesn't criticize herself

often, and gains self-esteem by operating independently of everyone.

Much of her self-esteem is caught up in control, having it, and keeping it.

4. Kouri, as form of passive-aggressive "punishment", or with a sense of

control, will withhold her love, conversation (silent treatment), 

attention, if she feels out of control or angry. She is capable of easily

removing her emotions, and has a reckless disregard of the wants and

needs of others. Kouri's needs come first, followed by "everyone else."

5. Kouri over-focuses in some area of life, while remaining neglectful

over basic adult responsibilities. She will put her needs before her husband

and children, friends, parents, siblings. She is a one man team; not a 

"team player." Always looking out for her own best interests.

6. Very poor boundaries: Kouri has no respect for boundaries set by

others. She will intentionally disregard them as if they do not apply to her.

She will sneak and look at husband's cell phone, snoop into his finances,

and ensure nothing stays "private" from "her" 

7. Because she displays Narcissistic Traits in general, it is easy to see how

or why, she treats people and relationships as transactional. Relationships

for Kouri, are about manipulating any and all people around her, including

her children, as though they were just chess pieces she was moving on a

chessboard. Manipulates people for her own advantage

8. impulsive: VERY Reactive to any type of criticism , and this is where her

impulsivity gets her in trouble and can make her dangerous. When she is

is angry, she has a temper, and is out not to resolve the argument, but 

rather, to "win the argument."

9. Much of her handwriting reflects a focus mostly on the past, and 

surrounding things that have already happened; over which she has no

CONTROL. In a way, she's attempting, through manipulation, to re-write

"the past", so that it is legally, more favorable to her and her outcome.

10. Her handwriting reflects that she has no strong attachments, rooted

in love or respect, for either parent. Unsure if Kouri's father is alive, but

her handwriting reveals no sense of connection/love for father or mother.

In knowing that Kouri frequently talks to her mother, minus the love and

respect, is merely highlighting the transactional nature of her relationship

with her mother.

11. pathological liar: She will lie about any and everything and she isn't

afraid to take chances on her lies and or how bold they are.

12. Much greater risk of violence toward others because of how very 

angry and impulsive (in combination with each other) she can be. 

Predictably-unpredictable.